If you want to excel as a coach, entrepreneur or business owner, overcoming self doubt is key. That’s why today’s blog post is all about overcoming self doubt and recognizing the progress you’re making even in your most “meh” months.
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So if you’re ready to learn how to f*ck fear and build the business of your dreams, this blog – and ALL of the Fierce as F*ck Brand – is for you!
In today’s post, we’re specifically discussing three key points every coach, entrepreneur or business owner needs to know about overcoming self doubt. So if you’re ready to stop doubting yourself and start recognizing what a badass you really are, keep on reading!
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The end of last year felt really rough for me, and I wasn’t sure why. I found myself asking questions like, “Am I as good of a coach as I used to be? Am I still making the impact I did at the beginning of the year?”
And if you followed my journey to becoming fierce as f*ck, it’s been an AMAZING one. But everything happened so quickly and sometimes when that happens and things slow down, we go into full panic mode. And I’m f*cking sure you’ve felt the same way when you’ve been selling like crazy and all of a sudden sales slowed down.
The truth is, we all have those months where they’re not our best month or we’re even crushing it on paper but still feeling “meh.” And last November and December, I found myself losing faith a little bit in myself. I felt like I wasn’t showing up as energetically as I used to. And all of these self-doubts f*cked with my brain so much, I became a nervous Nellie. And you know exactly what I mean if you’ve ever woken up in the morning feeling anxious and thinking, “Where is this coming from? What is happening?” Everything feels almost weird and like you can’t pull yourself out of this little self-doubt bubble.
So all of this was happening to me, and as my brain was swirling with worries one night, I said to the universe, “I need some f*cking help with this. I don’t know why I’m feeling this way and I don’t like that I’m feeling this way. Whatever this is, help me get through it.”
So I sat there and the universe pretty much slapped me in the face and said, “Why are you rushing this? Why are you trying to rush the process?”
And that’s when I realized I was focusing on where I thought I should be instead of where I was right then, and that I was missing all of the beauty about where I was.
I think every single one of you has had a moment in your life where you just want to get to the result and you don’t want to go through the process. And if you’re so focused on that end result and why you’re not there already, you’re probably telling yourself you’re not making an impact, you’re not showing up, you’re not selling the way you should be, etc.
So repeat after me: “Whether the sales come, whether the sales stall, I am here right now for a f*cking reason.” And stop being impatient with the universe because she can only work so quickly.
When you are mentally, spiritually and soulfully ready for success, the universe will hand success to you. We all want to have tons of clients or earn a million dollars. But if tomorrow you woke up and seven hundred people wanted to join your program, would you be ready for that? If a million dollars landed in your bank account tomorrow, would you be able to handle that? Sometimes the answer is no and that’s one hundred percent f*cking OK. Wherever you are right now, you’re there for a reason.
So we need to stop putting ourselves through pain and turmoil when it’s not necessary. Because when we focus so much on being negative to ourselves, we begin to lose faith in ourselves. And how can we reach that next level if we’re being so unkind to ourselves?
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Now, I want you to reflect on where the f*ck you were this time last year because I can promise you, you are so much further. You may not be further financially, but you are further spiritually, mentally, physically. You are stronger, you are wiser, you are smarter, you are braver and you are more vulnerable.
So let’s focus on everything that we have going for us right now and the transformation we’ve undergone. Cause, girl, you have had one.
And I’m not trying to preach and get on a pedestal and say, “I know all the answers.” But I DO know what someone out there needs to hear right now:
Every time you’re going through self-doubt, know so many people – from people making zero dollars to people making millions – are feeling it and have gone through it too. So give yourself some grace and kindness and love and focus on how you’re so much further along than you were last year, and that’s what’s important.
If there’s one message you take away from this post, I hope it’s that you are SO special and you deserve to treat yourself like it. And I promise, everything’s going to get better – but only if you start lifting that 10-pound f*cking boulder off of your back, and you release some of that pressure that you’re putting on yourself.
And if you have lost faith in yourself, you don’t need to have it. Because I have faith in you. Every single person that you show up for has faith in you. Everything’s going to be OK, and everything will be beautiful if you allow it to be.
I love you guys so much, and thank you for being here with me. And I can’t wait to hear about the magical success you ALL experience when the time is right.
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She is a Women’s Empowerment and Business Coach who teaches women to step out of their fear and into 6 figure Sales . She teaches women how to grow their business organically without the use of sales funnels, websites, and email marketing. She began her Coaching Business is Jan 2019 and created a six figure business in three months. She now helps teach women to do the same!
